Monthly Mindfulness: Ryan Holiday

A Stoic Approach to Educational Leadership

In the demanding world of education, where each day brings new challenges and unexpected situations, the ancient wisdom of Stoicism offers surprisingly relevant guidance for modern educators. Drawing inspiration from Ryan Holiday’s contemporary interpretation of Stoic principles, let’s explore how mindfulness and Stoic practices can transform our approach to educational leadership.

The Classroom as a Training Ground for Wisdom

Just as Holiday emphasizes the importance of viewing parenting challenges as opportunities for personal growth, educators can reframe daily classroom obstacles as chances to practice wisdom and resilience. When a lesson plan falls flat or a student disrupts class, these aren’t setbacks—they’re opportunities to demonstrate grace under pressure and model emotional regulation for our students.

Consider the morning routine: Instead of dreading the chaos of arrival time, approach it as Holiday might—as a daily invitation to practice presence and patience. Each interaction becomes a chance to embody the principles we hope to instill in our students.

Control What You Can, Accept What You Can’t

One of Holiday’s core teachings, adapted from traditional Stoicism, is particularly relevant to education: focus on what’s within your control. In an era of shifting educational policies, budget constraints, and increasing demands on teachers, this principle becomes a anchor for maintaining sanity and effectiveness.

As educational leaders, we can control:

  • Our response to challenging situations
  • The atmosphere we create in our classrooms
  • The effort we put into preparation and professional development
  • The way we communicate with students, parents, and colleagues

We must accept with equanimity:

  • District-level policy changes
  • Student backgrounds and home situations
  • Limited resources
  • External assessment requirements

Monthly Mindfulness Practices for Educators

Taking inspiration from Holiday’s practical approach to ancient wisdom, here are concrete practices for each month of the school year:

September: Presence

Start the year by practicing full presence in each classroom moment. When speaking with a student, give them your complete attention. Notice the tendency to mentally wander to your next task, and gently return to the present.

October: Resilience

As the initial excitement of the new year fades, focus on building resilience. Document daily challenges and your responses, reflecting on how you can maintain equilibrium during difficult moments.

November: Gratitude

Before the holiday season, cultivate deliberate gratitude. Create a daily list of three specific things you appreciate about your school community, no matter how small.

December: Boundaries

Practice Holiday’s principle of saying “no” to preserve your essential “yes.” Evaluate your commitments and consciously choose where to invest your energy during this busy season.

[To See the Entire Monthly Calendar with weekly outlines go here to my TPT Page.]

The Leader as Student

Holiday often emphasizes that true leaders remain perpetual students. In education, this means:

  • Regularly seeking feedback from colleagues and students
  • Studying our own reactions to challenging situations
  • Learning from failed lessons or difficult days
  • Staying curious about new teaching methods while maintaining healthy skepticism

Practical Implementation

Start small. Choose one Stoic principle—perhaps the dichotomy of control—and practice it deliberately for a week. Notice how it affects your teaching and leadership. Document your observations, just as Holiday advocates for journaling as a tool for growth.

Create a morning routine that includes:

  1. Five minutes of quiet reflection before students arrive
  2. A brief review of your core principles for the day
  3. Setting intentions for how you’ll handle potential challenges

Building Community Through Shared Practice

Consider starting a monthly mindfulness group with fellow educators. Use Holiday’s accessible approach to Stoicism as a framework for discussing common challenges and sharing strategies. This creates a support network while deepening everyone’s practice.

Conclusion

As Holiday reminds us, philosophy isn’t meant to stay on the page—it must be lived. By bringing mindfulness and Stoic principles into our educational practice, we not only become better leaders but also model valuable life skills for our students. In the end, isn’t that what education is truly about?

Remember: The goal isn’t perfection but progress. As you implement these principles, be patient with yourself and others. As Holiday would say, the obstacle is the way—each challenge in your educational journey is an opportunity for growth and deeper understanding.

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